URNotAlone Transgender Site
URNotAlone transgender site is an icon in the trans community. URNotAlone (URNA) has provided much-needed information & resources and has provided a way to meet trans people since 1996. We welcome transgender, transsexual, gender queer, crossdresser, transvestite, androgynous, cisgender, trans admirers and intersex visitors. URNA is a completely open and welcoming transgender resource site.
Browse our transgender information, articles, events, videos, member journals, photo galleries and live chat. Once signed into chat you may view member bios, view their public photo galleries and browse the trans message forums. We are merging URNA chat with an active transgender social network which includes TGGuide.com, TGTalk.com, TransChatr.com among others. You’re sure to make some new friends!
URNotAlone.com has a New Server
Please pardon any service interruptions in services at URNotAlone.com. Traffic to the site and activity was too much for our old server. This resulted in some recent website downtime and glitches in our transgender services. Both URNotAlone and TGGuide have been fully migrated to a faster server. Everything is running smoothly now.
Transgender Clothing, Shoes & Accessories
URNotAlone Sponsor: EnFemme Style Transgender Clothing and Accessories
We are proud to announce the sponsorship of transgender clothing site EnFemme Style, the leading transgender clothing and accessories retailer on the internet. You will find appropriately sized dresses, shoes, wigs, breast forms, gaffs, body shapers, undergarments, hosiery and much more. See the Enfemme Style sizing guides to ensure perfect fit. Finally, a clothing store just for transgender customers!
URNA Transgender Support Profiles (non-adult)
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URNotAlone Profiles are now available for browsing and searching. Please note that we have provided a transgender support (non-adult) platform and an adult trans platform. You may search either of the profiles databases below to find new friends. Please note that URNA transgender support chat is non-adult, however, we do offer an adult trans chat platform as well. If you are a returning member and do not see your old profile you may instantly reactivate your profile simply by signing into our new transgender support chat platform using your existing login credentials.
URNA Trans Adult Profiles
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Adult Trans Profiles at URNA are now available for browsing and search to locate members near you. Please note that this adult transgender chat platform is adult-oriented, however, we offer transgender support chat (non-adult) as well. Please select the appropriate chat rooms for your needs. You are quite welcome to create a trans chat profile in both support and adult chats. If you are a returning member and do not see your old profile you may instantly reactivate your profile simply by signing into our new adult trans chat platform using your existing login credentials.
Transgender Events Calendar
We have updated our listing of annual transgender events and conferences. Transgender events and conferences come and go. We do our best to keep this page updated with correct information. Some transgender conferences listed here have been temporarily paused due to the pandemic. We are hopeful they will return as pandemic restrictions and health risks subside. Please help us keep this events list up-to-date.
Transgender Articles Library
The URNA transgender articles library is back online. The articles are sorted by category and the yearly archives are available dating back to 2002. You are welcome to browse the articles. There is a wealth of information there. The appearance of the pages may change a bit as we do updates. We have resumed reporting on major news and topics affecting the transgender community. We have also resumed our Member of the Month feature articles.
Want to submit a transgender article? We are always interested in publishing newsworthy or trans-positive articles on URNA. Please contact us to submit your article for consideration.
Transgender Friends & Support Chat
Transgender friends and support chat is available 24/7 at URNotAlone.com. This free non-adult support chat platform is designed for transsexuals, crossdressers, transgender people, trans community allies and for anyone exploring the transgender spectrum. We now also have an adult chat option available. See below.
URNA trans chats are totally inclusive. We welcome male to female, female to male, pre-op, post-op, non-op, transgender, transsexuals, crossdressers, transvestites, nonbinary, intersex, androgynous, straight, gay, bisexual, pansexual, genetic males, genetic females, significant others and friends. The chat rooms are very friendly. Please come in and make new friends.
Trans Adult Chat
Trans adult chat is now available at URNotAlone.com. This free adult trans chat platform is designed for transsexuals, crossdressers, transgender people and trans admirers. This is the best chat if you’re looking for hookups, cybersex or to share adult images. URNA adult trans chat is also inclusive so come in and make some new friends.
URNotAlone News & Recent Articles
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Hi all –
Does anyone out there know of anything that I can spray on my wigs to keep them from tangling so badly and so often?? I could swear I’m spending more time de-tangling them than I so wearing them!!
I like the EnFemmeStyle wig products. EnFemmeStyle is a clothing and accessories shop especially for us trans gurls. Look for the Revitalize Conditioning Mist. It works great for me.
Thank you Chrissie for your reply. I just checked out the En Femme website and they have several items that will help me a lot! Thanks again for your helpfulness GF!
Use a made for wig conditioner after you wash it with made for wig shampoo and then if needed a spray conditioner also made for wigs. It is important to use the right stuff and regular shampoo will probably strip the wig and it will tangle easier and frizz out. Use a wire comb or brush as the fibers are synthetic and static creates heat that frizzes them. Always start at the bottom to detangle and work your way up. Go slow, don’t over comb. The frizz is the same thing as if you run a ribbon over scissors to make it curl. If your wig gets frizzy but still others wise good you can de frizz with steam but move quickly and be aware to only do the ends, The steam will “reset” the wig fibers and loose any styling, there are some videos on line but this is a last resort as you can easily destroy a wig. If you have a local wig shop, some will restyle them and have all the product. Also I know a wig cap can be hot but if you can wear one it will keep your wig clean longer and you won’t have to wash as much. Good luck!
hi I have been a member for years but can’t log on
Hi Samantha. We can help with that. Please go to https://transchat.urnotalone.com/contact/ and provide your existing URNA username and email. Our support staff will help figure it out so you can sign into your old account. Once signed in you should see your profile and uploaded photos. Other journals will be restored soon as well.
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