Longtime crossdresser trying to figure out where I go from here.

I am married, mostly happy. But I have certain desires that simply can’t be met with a traditional marriage. I’m looking for a male to female friend or cross-dresser who enjoys exploring loving beautiful sexuality

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Travelling a lot for work. Looking for some fun, good chats, and company.

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Aussie fulltime girl since 19.

Fun loving, slim, somewhat attractive, pre-op gurl. Trying to become totally full time. There is something about black men that I can't seem to resist. I would love to have 2 or perhaps 3 black men as best friends and it doesn't have to be sexual. Update Feb 22, 2006 - Thank you for all the kind words. I guess I am my own worse judge and even though I've been dressing for years now, I still get nervous as I go out in public.

Looking for fun

Older Male seeking a serious relationship with Transgender or Crossdresser

Only shemales and Cds

Hi I'm Roberta, I'm a cross dresser I started age 12 back in 1963,wearing mom's playtex living bras lycra panty girdles,and seamedstockings. Trying to find my true identity But in 1960's everything was taboo back then I also love wearing leggings and yoga pants. It's who I really am totally feminine. pm me anytime, I like to make new friends especially girlfriends men are welcome to chat with me. Even though my wife now approves of Roberta she calls me Bobbi. But iam looking for a male companion for relationship, take me to dinner maybe dancing treat me like the older woman that iam. Whatever happens after that who knows let see what happens .I'm happily married crossdresser but still a woman who needs alittle fun I'm not getting any younger. My fem clock is racing and I need to catch up .my favorite saying is ( Look up Then get up And Never ever give up ) My favorite song by Shania Twain man I feel like a woman. And Thank-you to my biggest supporter 41 years later my wife Maryann and Thank-you Lena from Strong people. ??? Men are welcome . Hugs

Hello, I'm just a down-to-earth, young at heart, gurl-next-door who enjoys dressing in classy, traditionally feminine styles. I love dressing regularly at home and embracing femininity for long periods of time. A perfect, relaxing weekend can simply be spending it dressed in a soft, silky, night gown. Accept for a handful of short walks and drives, stepping out and feeling comfortable in public remains new to me. I would like to break out of my shell and be able to further express my feminine side more openly. I develop friendships more slowly because of my shyness, but I am friendly once you get to know me well. I am not into silly chit chat. Instead, I prefer to have an intelligent conversation in private to get to know others better. I would enjoy meeting other gurls for fun events. And would genuinely be interested in getting know a serious-minded, mature, handsome gentleman -- who knows how to treat a lady! I promise to respond to all respectful messages; however, please be serious in truly developing a friendship. Warmly yours,

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I am 43 years old. I enjoy wearing panties. I am 6' tall about 225 lbs brown hair and blue eyes. I am looking to meet new people online. Maybe find someone who is into the same thing as me. I would like to meet someone who can teach me to be a better girl.

Just a big admirer of cross dressers find them to be so beautiful

Married and she does not know I am here

such a rush being a femboi ... definitely the silk, satin and lace type ... i must say that i have a weakness for lingerie

I live a composed, conventional life and value calm, well-defined connections. I’m tall, slender, and intentional—someone who functions best when expectations are clear and continuity matters. There’s a quieter side of me that responds deeply to refinement and direction. I take care with presentation and feel most at ease when that care is guided—when options are reduced, standards are established, and consistency becomes second nature. I prepare deliberately and settle best when roles are understood without needing to be revisited. I’m drawn to men who notice nuance and think long-term. The kind of confidence that shapes without spectacle. I respond to steadiness, to decisions that remove uncertainty, and to guidance that allows me to relax into a more considered version of myself—maintained, not improvised. Subtle correction matters. So does continuity. I tend to absorb instruction quickly and prefer when it’s given cleanly, with the assumption it won’t need repeating. This would be discreet, unhurried, and built on trust. Privacy is essential. So is allowing something to develop without naming every adjustment along the way. If this resonates, you likely already know how to begin.

Single gurl looking to meet others with similar interests

Goodness rose

Same “Kelli”, but I needed a new account. Anyway, thank you for the opportunity to be part of this amazing community! I believe I first started chatting here in the previous version of URNA, 2006 or 7. I didn’t have any friends but in time I began to connect with people who were “like me”! ? I chatted for about 10 years, then I needed to step away for awhile—5 years. I came back to chat in 2022. I was missing the girls! They are so special to me, in the previous version and of course nowadays. Love you girls!! ?(and yes, a few fellas too ?) I was about 7 when I was thinking about whether I was a boy, or not. A few years later, I found out that I wasn’t a boy, internally. I didn’t have a sister (one older brother), so of course, my mom was my outlet to beginning dressing. I bought my first feminine clothing at 18, and I was happy So happy! I kept my feelings to myself…years and then decades, and no one else knew about me. Eventually I accumulated the equivalent of 5 or 6 big suitcases full of feminine clothes and stuff. But I was very lonely too. I eventually had a girl (cisgender woman) who was interested in me…and 2 years later we were married. But for 6 years I didn’t tell her anything about me, I just thought I was “cured by love”, and for a time it seemed right to erase my feelings about being a woman. But not really, I was living a lie. I couldn’t that anymore so i came out to her in 2005. Make a long story short—devastating, heartbreaking, but also forgiving, but eventually no….divorce in 2009, one day later I became “full time”, and moved from Illinois to Northern California in 2010. I’ve never been happier! After being unemployed for 9 months (my previous job i worked for 22 years back in Illinois), I was hired at Walmart, stocking goods at night (10 years), and by then i was a full time woman, and I was treated kindly all throughout my time there. In June, 2015, i had a stroke, , 3 years of hormones was one of the causes. Thankfully no physical problems, just my speech (speech therapy for 6 months), and nowadays my speech has improved significantly. In 2022, because of my recent health issues, i was not able to work anymore. These past few years became difficult, many medical procedures, but with help of doctors and nurses (and me!), I began to feel better about my health. And I am living alone (I had roommates for 16 years), so this is wonderful! In July 2023 I became legally Kelli Nicole Elam! Thank you everyone who helped me along the way, here and everywhere else. Love you girls and guys! Hugs and Kisses!!

I am a single mature crossdresser with lingerie fetish seeking mature women or gentlemen 45+ that desire more than a one and done hookup. We must have a connection for intimacy. I am squeaky clean, ultra discreet and ddf. Pvt me if your not in a rush and want to chat.

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Full Time Pre-Op Trans Lesbian Woman seeks SAME for chat and maybe more Former NYC Brooklyn gurl Not particularly attracted to the male species most are useless worthless creatures with very few exceptions. If you haven’t got a photo, you haven’t got a chance.!!! Will share pics Selectively Oh btw for the guys no Dick pics please unless requested.