proudly sexy Lady

Same “Kelli”, but I needed a new account. Anyway, thank you for the opportunity to be part of this amazing community! I believe I first started chatting here in the previous version of URNA, 2006 or 7. I didn’t have any friends but in time I began to connect with people who were “like me”! ? I chatted for about 10 years, then I needed to step away for awhile—5 years. I came back to chat in 2022. I was missing the girls! They are so special to me, in the previous version and of course nowadays. Love you girls!! ?(and yes, a few fellas too ?) I was about 7 when I was thinking about whether I was a boy, or not. A few years later, I found out that I wasn’t a boy, internally. I didn’t have a sister (one older brother), so of course, my mom was my outlet to beginning dressing. I bought my first feminine clothing at 18, and I was happy So happy! I kept my feelings to myself…years and then decades, and no one else knew about me. Eventually I accumulated the equivalent of 5 or 6 big suitcases full of feminine clothes and stuff. But I was very lonely too. I eventually had a girl (cisgender woman) who was interested in me…and 2 years later we were married. But for 6 years I didn’t tell her anything about me, I just thought I was “cured by love”, and for a time it seemed right to erase my feelings about being a woman. But not really, I was living a lie. I couldn’t that anymore so i came out to her in 2005. Make a long story short—devastating, heartbreaking, but also forgiving, but eventually no….divorce in 2009, one day later I became “full time”, and moved from Illinois to Northern California in 2010. I’ve never been happier! After being unemployed for 9 months (my previous job i worked for 22 years back in Illinois), I was hired at Walmart, stocking goods at night (10 years), and by then i was a full time woman, and I was treated kindly all throughout my time there. In June, 2015, i had a stroke, , 3 years of hormones was one of the causes. Thankfully no physical problems, just my speech (speech therapy for 6 months), and nowadays my speech has improved significantly. In 2022, because of my recent health issues, i was not able to work anymore. These past few years became difficult, many medical procedures, but with help of doctors and nurses (and me!), I began to feel better about my health. And I am living alone (I had roommates for 16 years), so this is wonderful! In July 2023 I became legally Kelli Nicole Elam! Thank you everyone who helped me along the way, here and everywhere else. Love you girls and guys! Hugs and Kisses!!

2 Feb 13 Just looking for friends, fun, and the meaning of life. Maybe even some love........ long time since I wrote that it's 2024 now, I don't update very much, well found some friends, had a lot of fun since then, and the meaning of life, who knows, try to be happy I guess. I'm happy, I gave up the man life right many years ago and went to cosmetology school became a hairstylist, I live fulltime as me, I'm semi-retired now but still luv to do hair part time and do so at least 2 days a week, I've been coming here to chat with friends way back in 2006 and have talked to some amazing people some sadly are gone now and sorely missed but am always glad to meet new ppl and keep in touch with old friends. I'm not into women sexualy but luv so many as dear friends I really only date guys but not interested in any right now too busy just being me and my happy life for now. oh and yeah,,, Bigfoot is real

Middle aged and nice person, looking for flirt and connection . Been dressing my ever since I can remember. Married out of expectations and began life. Tried to run from reality but it never left, but stayed in shadows. Now, the true self is always taking over and stepping out. Each time growing more powerful and more in control…which eventually will make this fake life that has been built fly out of control but finally possibly lived in truth for the first time ever.

I am easy going man who love God and love Jesus Christ, which i believe prayer is the key cause i like to pray, honesty caring, loyalty trust, dependable, loving, gentle, affectionate and have good friendship.

Hi there! I'm a closeted cd who loves dressing to tease. If it's skintight, shiny and revealing, the chances are I'll be wearing it. My pride and joy are my boots. The taller the better. They make me feel so sexy! I had my first experience with crossdressing when I was in my teens. I loved the feeling of sliding a sexy pair of smooth silky panties on and then posing for myself in the mirror. It just got me so turned on. From then on I started establishing my look a little further. I stuck with my natural hair color, and then just went for the sexiest stuff I could find. I don't go out dressed, preferring to have a sexy little secret to myself. I like to consider myself pretty approachable. If you send an uninvited pm and I'm not interested I'm not going to put you on blast, I just block. Turnoffs: being rude or overly submissive. TurnOn's: Nice guys and wild girls ;) Pet peeves: misspelling my name :P lol Look forward to meeting you! You can also find me on fetlife.com under the same name :)

I'm quiet by nature, with layers that rarely surface. I tend to be gentle, understated, and reserved, yet there’s a soft feminine current underneath that feels increasingly alive and curious. I’m drawn to subtle sensations and moments — the feel of smooth fabric, the way certain words linger, the comfort of being spoken to with warmth and intention. I’ve always noticed confidence and steadiness in men, and there’s a deep comfort in yielding to that calm strength, letting it shape and awaken parts of me I’m still learning to understand. I can be bashful, a little hesitant, sometimes unsure — but beneath that is someone attentive, receptive, and emotionally open. I respond to patience, reassurance, and a quiet sense of authority. Being appreciated, encouraged, and gently guided means more to me than loud gestures ever could. This feminine side of me is unfolding slowly, privately — an inward discovery that feels both soothing and electrifying. If you pay attention to the nuances — the softness in my words, the care in my responses — you’ll sense a devotion, sensitivity, and quiet eagerness that I’m only just beginning to allow space for.

Looking to try something new

Closeted crossdresser been dressing since teens. Looking for others in Maine who are in to crossdressing

I am a transsexual female, post (SRS) surgery (2003) in Thailand for bottom. Top (2002) and electrolysis (01~2003) in Tenn, Adam's Apple shaved and voice box in Canada (2002). Gee seams like I was sorta put together from all over. Now that was a fabulous way to travel, and I would do it again in an instant. You might say that I am a man made woman. To be a bit more normal (If their can be such a thing) I changed my name (legally) to something A bit more femine and all government paper work (such as ID's). To reflect my gender (as a Female or (F)), and this is so helpful and when talking with people in authority. They do not call me SIR or MISTER. Cis people just do not know how much pain that causes. they are just trying to be accurate. I am not afraid to go into any ladies room. (Because I am a lady) and not a guy in any sense of the word. I have not owned a penis, testes, or Scrotum for the past 20+ years. Always Jenny

If you send me a Friend Request, please send me a message. I won't add you unless I actually know who you are, and even them I'm pretty picky about adding people. Update Exciting news! One of my stories was made into an audiobook. If you've ever read Dolled Up To Rock N Roll, this is a super sexy take on it. https://traffic.libsyn.com/dirtybitpodcast/DirtyBitPodcast_280-_Dolled_Up_To_RockNRoll.mp3 I'd love to hear what anyone thinks. My profile: I'm a married crossdresser. Yes, my wife knows, and we've talked about it. She's not entirely comfortable with it but is getting more accepting. I'm taking things a step at a time, and I've been going out for the two years or so. I'll start posting some of my pics going out. Its been fantastic! I've also been working on a web series for trans and non-binary folks called "Wishlist". I'm doing the video editing and music for my friend Hannah. You can check it out at https://hannahmcknight.org/ and the Wishlist page at https://hannahmcknight.org/tag/wishlist/page/2/ I tried shoving Shawna back into the closet, but one thing I keep finding about CDing, no matter how much you try to shove it into the closet, it seems to keep coming back out (I think its all the shoes on the closet floor, but that could just be me). So, I'm back, I'm not on here a lot, but I will usually respond to comments, and always love hearing from other girls. I'm also big into kinks with fetish wear and BDSM being the big ones. If anyone is in a relationship like that, or would like to talk about it, drop me a line. Also, please don't just send me a friend request. I'm not really interested in gathering a collection of 'friends' that I never talk to. I do hope everyone finds whatever it is you're looking for. Another update: I've been writing sissy fiction for some time now and its posted on Literotica, Fictionmania and Gromet's Plaza. Please note these are heavy on kink, BDSM and sex, so be warned. https://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=1112562&page=submissions https://www.fictionmania.tv/searchdisplay/authordisplay.html?word=3988 https://grometsplaza.net/world/tg/tgcdauthors.html I'm towards the bottom, under 'S' I've also got a number of songs I've made that are supposed to be a background theme. They're on SoundCloud at: https://soundcloud.com/you/tracks If you've actually read this far, thanks! hugs Shawna

Attractive passable crossdresser seeks accepting female, other cds or men. Love showing off my legs in short skirts/dresses and heels. Would love to find a friend.

twice divorced admirer and friend to the community, amateur photographer, nature enthusiast and easy going personality, in a committed relationship and living with my greatest friend and partner for life.

Just a safe sane reasonable admirer in Philly looking for chats and meets

Just a normal guy interested in cross dressers or transgendered ladies.

new here trying to find some love

DEL area, hit me up looking for fun.

A friend with some of the amazing women here. Drop by and say hello, I'm always up for a chat. (the older the better lol)

I am looking for a loving, caring and strict Mistress to treat me like the sissy princess I am. My PM is open for anyone who wants to chat Just so there is no misunderstanding, the pictures in my gallery are not me, it is who i am in my soul.

I am married but dress as often as I can - wife knows but prefers not to be around when I dress. She doesn’t know that I love men and crave cock. Very submissive

Love femenine TSs, TV's , CDs and women. Always open to chat so PMs are welcome. Specially interested in naughty girls for cyber fun and maybe more ....? Would love to find a girl interested in a NSA sex relationship.....my personal situation is complicated ...but bope could find someone to be friends with benefits. Straight married man....this obsession is my little secret from my wife.

Hi everybody, was recommended this site by a friend so I though I'd see how things are here. Always looking to make friends, if more comes from that I won't complain. Anything else you'd like to know about me just ask I'm an approachable person

Have. enjoyed my feminine. feelings and desires. since. childhood, and. am totally happy. and content. wiith chosing my path in life in heels and hose and all the beautiful things. females. enjoy and covet.

Hello, i am bilingual can host in elk grove prefer before 7 pm because live with mom in 2 bedrooms; used to have a car still driver license; getting a big check can pay back with interest have 2 thousand monthly income