I guess I'm the rare TG woman who would consider herself more of a tomboy. I much prefer gym clothes and running shoes over a dress and heels anyday. But don't get me wrong, I'll still rock a dress if the occasion calls for it. I consider myself a budding triathlete, and spend my of my free time training, and much of my discretionary income on racing. I'm open to PM, but I work in Washington DC, so I'm surrounded by nonsense all day. I don't need to here as well.

Looking for that somebody that I can share my entire self with. Somebody that is not afraid to be loved as well express love..Someone I can spend the rest of my Life with.

Im a trans women

Hi, I was on this site years ago under the same name. Decided to give it another try as I do enjoy chatting with girls of similar background. I transitioned a few years after college, love to play golf and travel. I work as an assistant pro at a club in the Phoenix area.

good bye

2 Feb 13 Just looking for friends, fun, and the meaning of life. Maybe even some love. ........ long time since I wrote that it's 2024 now, I don't update very much, well found some friends, had a lot of fun since then, and the meaning of life, who knows, try to be happy I guess. I'm happy, I gave up the man life right many years ago and went to cosmetology school became a hairstylist, I live fulltime as me, I'm semi-retired now but still luv to do hair part time and do so at least 2 days a week, I've been coming here to chat with friends way back in 2006 and have talked to some amazing people some sadly are gone now and sorely missed but am always glad to meet new ppl and keep in touch with old friends. I'm not into women sexualy but luv so many as dear friends I really only date guys but not interested in any right now too busy just being me and my happy life for now.... Bigfoot is real

Single mom, Transbian, Gemini.

I should say up front that I am not attracted to men, which may not be super popular, but it just is how it is. I think now is the time to update my profile so that it might be more helpful to others with pathways that are similar to mine and are struggling to get answers about themselves. And I am going to use my own story as a transwoman as the reference point for my description because it is easier to do than to try to make it cover all scenarios, but you can translate it to your own situation, I am sure. The typical narrative that we hear for transwomen is one in which they have always known they were "in the wrong body", that they liked to play with the toys and dress in the clothes stereotypically associated with girls, and they always felt like they fit in with the girls, but not the boys. And puberty is generally a source of great distress. Of course, this is a totally fine and valid narrative, but it is not the only one that exists. I had none of that. When I was young, I never questioned that I was a boy. My buddies were boys, I did all the things other boys did, and I liked girls. When puberty came, it was later than for most of the kids in my class, but I really wanted it to get underway because girls did not seem interested in the shrimpy boys that did not even have pubic hair. I did have a number of clues pop up during my life that in retrospect were indications that I was trans, such as being fascinated by a sitcom story about a character who went to a high school reunion and ran into an old friend who had transitioned to a woman, and the news story about a girl in a James Bond movie who was trans...I had the vague feeling that I wanted to transition when I encountered those stories, but I quickly forgot about it and moved on in life. There were a bunch of others, but none of them fit what I believed was an indication of anything related to being a transgender person. When I first saw a transwoman on the internet (porn) I was highly attracted to her and was shocked that it was possible for the transition to yield results that were so good. Again, I had the feeling that I wanted to be like her, but it was not powerful. I believed that for any person to go through the tremendous challenges of transitioning to a woman, they would need to have a signal as clear as a billboard on Broadway telling them "You are a woman!!!". I had nothing of the sort. So, I went on to get married, have kids, and live happily for 20 years. Then the "trigger event" occurred. There were changes in the year leading up to it, but I did not understand them. For example, I began to have a persistent fantasy of being kidnapped and forced to transition to a woman and to serve as a prostitute. I also had the attraction to having breasts and used a toy called a "wubble full of snow" as a fake boob that I could stick in my shirt. I hid this from everybody, of course, but it was a powerful desire and I could not get enough of that feeling (though it was not related to sex or masturbation). Then, by chance, I used the FaceApp gender swap function to alter a picture of myself and when I did, it was like being struck by lightning. I could not stop using it all afternoon. The next day, I found that I was highly attracted to my own image, and that did lead to a sexual response, and then I tried to simulate the image in real life by using makeup. That also "worked"; however, after about 4 times, it faded away and I no longer had any significant sexual response to my pictures or any kind of "cross dressing". Unfortunately, the trigger event was a marker for the onset of gender dysphoria, which for me manifested in an unbelievably powerful body envy reaction whenever I saw a woman, even if she was on TV. It eventually led to an unhappiness that I looked as male as I did. This was a debilitating condition that was so disruptive that I could not enjoy going out in public, watching a movie, or just doing anything where I would see a woman (but not my wife, for some reason). I began to fall behind at work and felt like I was drowning. I realized that I was not going to be able to live 30 or 40 more years like that, and I asked for help from my therapist (whom I had started seeing shortly after the trigger event). I looked for other treatments, but the only option other than transition seemed to be cognitive behavior therapy supplemented by SSRIs. That appeared to offer a little progress in coping with the dysphoria over a couple of years, but I needed a fundamental change, not a little progress. I chatted with a bunch of people here and I don't remember coming across any who were just battling the dysphoria and could describe their quality of life as good (I am sure there are some out there, and if so, I would be interested to hear from you!). Those that did transition seemed to be quite happy (at least in what they revealed to me). My head told me transition was not a good idea for me because there was nothing feminine about me, and it would completely flip my life on its ass, a life in which I was happy and had previously had no significant problems. At the same time, there was a part of me that said "do not walk past this opportunity or you will regret it forever." So, after about 15 months of struggling and figuring shit out, I listened to that voice, which is against all of the things my engineering brain was telling me I have been on HRT for about 2 years with a very slow ramp up on my dosage during that time, and I feel great. The estradiol got rid of about 90% of the dysphoria and I felt like my "old" self. I have really struggled with getting comfortable with how I am going to present and what I am going to be like. As I mentioned, I am not very feminine, so I would never really "pass", but I eventually came to realize that I don't necessarily need to pass in order to be happy. I want to look my best, but I am just going to be more comfortable dressed in casual sports clothes than in a dress, happier playing hockey and doing kung fu than going clubbing, and that this is ok. That was a place in which I did not expect to land, but I am glad I did. If this helps anybody, I will be happy. Just know that everybody's story is different, and you do have to figure your own issues out, but you will get to be where you need to be if you listen to your gut and are honest with yourself, I think. Best wishes to you, and do not be afraid to contact me if you would like to chat.

My name is Tammy Love well I'm a parttime crossdresser of the age 46 marred no seeking any one man or woman .just here to post and chat make new friends

submissive crossdresser who enjoys the female side of things and all that fulfills the wonderland of feeling like a woman

Cross dresser newly out looking for tip on looking fabulous

Hi im Elliott (female to male) formerly megan. 24 from oslo looking forward to meeting you all.

Suzi is alive & well, living in Dayton. "Suzi has continued to blossom" as one of my friends noted. Life is good. Follow Suzi's adventures and look for pictures from her latest adventures on - https://www.facebook.com/suzi.jet and http://www.flickr.com/people/suzijet/ The Dayton GEMS may be fading but fear not URNA's "T" Party has become a steady happening. Come to Club Diversity (863 S High St, Columbus, Ohio start at 7:00 but people wander in all evening) on the 4th Sat and join us. No "T" Party in December - too close to Christmas. Suzi is busy doing a lot of things so my attendance is not regular, but the gathering continues. Suzi's initial steps from the closet was at Susan's Chat ( http://www.susans.org ) and Susan and the girls will always hold a special place in my heart. My site at Geocities may be gone but the net is the closest to immortality we will have on earth. My site was saved at http://www.reocities.com/suzijet/index.htm Unfortunately, that bit of history has also disappeared. May be hiding in the cloud with hrc's emails, but I haven't seen it lately. Keep in mind the information you get from the net is worth every penny you pay for it. Special thanks to URNOTALONE, one of the best "T" places on the net. Love, Suzi Guys - I appreciate the attention. It is flattering to have all of you stopping by and asking to be my friend. However, since I'm not into guys I'll have to decline the offers. If you dress and want to get out of the closet I'll talk with you. Gurls are more than welcome to ask to be my friend.

I am still learning about myself The older I get the more convinced I'm Viola and so happy to be the girl ive always been Please dont be offended but im not into men so please do not pm me for cyber as Im not interested

Looking to make local friends, and ONLY friends. I'm in a relationship. T-Girls of any age. Men born after 1975, DO NOT bother contacting me, for any reason!

Accepting and discovering my female self while coping with gender dysphoria.

I am a mature crossdresser looking for friends.

Just having fun

I am a mess lol but I’m sorting things out. It takes a lifetime to figure out nothing was ever wrong with you… that you saw who others expected too much from and it resembled failure. I might not know anything but I know I’m enough.

I'm Kasha and looking for friends. I enjoy dressing up, getting drinks, dancing, dinner and good conversation. It would be great to have regular friends to make plans with. I only get to dress a few times a year, but I'm interested in meeting in person after we establish trust. I live hear SF, but often travel to LA.

Trying to help Others, I am a CD, part time, have no desire to go full time, very comfortable in public and have been for many years.

Hi im shy nice to meet ya

Looking to explore new adventures

Looking for a nice girl