I'm a 51 year old Transgender woman and I'm no longer running from being transgender. I'm finally out and so relieved and happy. My wife and I are dealing with it very well and haven't got on so well for years. But the problem is she doesn't want to be married to a woman. So here is our next hurdle.

I just want to have fun and be happy , hopefully I find a sweet partner here

Looking to meet new people

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I should say up front that I am not attracted to men, which may not be super popular, but it just is how it is. I think now is the time to update my profile so that it might be more helpful to others with pathways that are similar to mine and are struggling to get answers about themselves. And I am going to use my own story as a transwoman as the reference point for my description because it is easier to do than to try to make it cover all scenarios, but you can translate it to your own situation, I am sure. The typical narrative that we hear for transwomen is one in which they have always known they were "in the wrong body", that they liked to play with the toys and dress in the clothes stereotypically associated with girls, and they always felt like they fit in with the girls, but not the boys. And puberty is generally a source of great distress. Of course, this is a totally fine and valid narrative, but it is not the only one that exists. I had none of that. When I was young, I never questioned that I was a boy. My buddies were boys, I did all the things other boys did, and I liked girls. When puberty came, it was later than for most of the kids in my class, but I really wanted it to get underway because girls did not seem interested in the shrimpy boys that did not even have pubic hair. I did have a number of clues pop up during my life that in retrospect were indications that I was trans, such as being fascinated by a sitcom story about a character who went to a high school reunion and ran into an old friend who had transitioned to a woman, and the news story about a girl in a James Bond movie who was trans...I had the vague feeling that I wanted to transition when I encountered those stories, but I quickly forgot about it and moved on in life. There were a bunch of others, but none of them fit what I believed was an indication of anything related to being a transgender person. When I first saw a transwoman on the internet (porn) I was highly attracted to her and was shocked that it was possible for the transition to yield results that were so good. Again, I had the feeling that I wanted to be like her, but it was not powerful. I believed that for any person to go through the tremendous challenges of transitioning to a woman, they would need to have a signal as clear as a billboard on Broadway telling them "You are a woman!!!". I had nothing of the sort. So, I went on to get married, have kids, and live happily for 20 years. Then the "trigger event" occurred. There were changes in the year leading up to it, but I did not understand them. For example, I began to have a persistent fantasy of being kidnapped and forced to transition to a woman and to serve as a prostitute. I also had the attraction to having breasts and used a toy called a "wubble full of snow" as a fake boob that I could stick in my shirt. I hid this from everybody, of course, but it was a powerful desire and I could not get enough of that feeling (though it was not related to sex or masturbation). Then, by chance, I used the FaceApp gender swap function to alter a picture of myself and when I did, it was like being struck by lightning. I could not stop using it all afternoon. The next day, I found that I was highly attracted to my own image, and that did lead to a sexual response, and then I tried to simulate the image in real life by using makeup. That also "worked"; however, after about 4 times, it faded away and I no longer had any significant sexual response to my pictures or any kind of "cross dressing". Unfortunately, the trigger event was a marker for the onset of gender dysphoria, which for me manifested in an unbelievably powerful body envy reaction whenever I saw a woman, even if she was on TV. It eventually led to an unhappiness that I looked as male as I did. This was a debilitating condition that was so disruptive that I could not enjoy going out in public, watching a movie, or just doing anything where I would see a woman (but not my wife, for some reason). I began to fall behind at work and felt like I was drowning. I realized that I was not going to be able to live 30 or 40 more years like that, and I asked for help from my therapist (whom I had started seeing shortly after the trigger event). I looked for other treatments, but the only option other than transition seemed to be cognitive behavior therapy supplemented by SSRIs. That appeared to offer a little progress in coping with the dysphoria over a couple of years, but I needed a fundamental change, not a little progress. I chatted with a bunch of people here and I don't remember coming across any who were just battling the dysphoria and could describe their quality of life as good (I am sure there are some out there, and if so, I would be interested to hear from you!). Those that did transition seemed to be quite happy (at least in what they revealed to me). My head told me transition was not a good idea for me because there was nothing feminine about me, and it would completely flip my life on its ass, a life in which I was happy and had previously had no significant problems. At the same time, there was a part of me that said "do not walk past this opportunity or you will regret it forever." So, after about 15 months of struggling and figuring shit out, I listened to that voice, which is against all of the things my engineering brain was telling me I have been on HRT for about 2 years with a very slow ramp up on my dosage during that time, and I feel great. The estradiol got rid of about 90% of the dysphoria and I felt like my "old" self. I have really struggled with getting comfortable with how I am going to present and what I am going to be like. As I mentioned, I am not very feminine, so I would never really "pass", but I eventually came to realize that I don't necessarily need to pass in order to be happy. I want to look my best, but I am just going to be more comfortable dressed in casual sports clothes than in a dress, happier playing hockey and doing kung fu than going clubbing, and that this is ok. That was a place in which I did not expect to land, but I am glad I did. If this helps anybody, I will be happy. Just know that everybody's story is different, and you do have to figure your own issues out, but you will get to be where you need to be if you listen to your gut and are honest with yourself, I think. Best wishes to you, and do not be afraid to contact me if you would like to chat.

Im a trans women

Trans femme, just finished grad school and moved cross country

I've been away for awhile. Just trying to work it out that I can spend some time in both of my worlds.

just a nice guy who believes romance is a lost art.

I'm a 52 year old guy that wants to start transitioning from male to female.

I am a life long M2F transgender person. I began dressing at age 8. I dressed on and off as a kid and teenager. My TG feelings became very intense at about age 43 and I began dressing fully. My first makeover was an amazing experience. Today, I have a full wardrobe and dress fully. I'm a real girdle girl. I have attended several TG conferences and learned a lot. I prefer to chat in private here, please say hello if you read my profile.

Accepting and discovering my female self while coping with gender dysphoria.

2 Feb 13 Just looking for friends, fun, and the meaning of life. Maybe even some love. ........ long time since I wrote that it's 2024 now, I don't update very much, well found some friends, had a lot of fun since then, and the meaning of life, who knows, try to be happy I guess. I'm happy, I gave up the man life right many years ago and went to cosmetology school became a hairstylist, I live fulltime as me, I'm semi-retired now but still luv to do hair part time and do so at least 2 days a week, I've been coming here to chat with friends way back in 2006 and have talked to some amazing people some sadly are gone now and sorely missed but am always glad to meet new ppl and keep in touch with old friends. I'm not into women sexualy but luv so many as dear friends I really only date guys but not interested in any right now too busy just being me and my happy life for now.... Bigfoot is real

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I am a mature crossdresser looking for friends.

Nice guy in central NY mostly here to chat with friends. Feel free to say Hi.

I like music, horses and dogs. Also old movies and friendly ppl. I'm scot/irish but born in NY. I was in a bad accident and my face has a lot of bad scars now so yes, the picture is old. I won't take a new picture. I also have a trained assist dog named Hannah.

I guess I'm the rare TG woman who would consider herself more of a tomboy. I much prefer gym clothes and running shoes over a dress and heels anyday. But don't get me wrong, I'll still rock a dress if the occasion calls for it. I consider myself a budding triathlete, and spend my of my free time training, and much of my discretionary income on racing. I'm open to PM, but I work in Washington DC, so I'm surrounded by nonsense all day. I don't need to here as well.

Been alone 6 years widower hoping to find a woman looking for the same

Looking to meet new people

It's like i was never here.

I'm a Trans woman and have been on this site in the past. My life is complicated at the moment but it would be nice to find fun people to talk to once in a while. Girls feel free to say hi anytime. Guys, you are welcome to pm but please have a better opening line than hi, hi baby or what's up. Also guys, please don't ask about my personal life or body. If I want to share that I will. I also don't accept random friend requests if we haven't chatted before. If I haven't scared you off yet, feel free to say hi.

I am a 'mature' (64 yrs) and dedicated single male crossdresser. I am a tall 'gurl' at 5'11" without heels and weigh 180 lbs. I generally 'dress my age' but still try to be VERY FEMININE in what I wear and how I 'act' when I do dress. I am seeking friends of BOTH genders for friendship and a 'hopefully' a male for acceptance and a more 'one on one' friendship in the Winston Salem, NC area. I am 'private' and NOT 'out' but still would like to 'expand' my time as a woman in trusted encounters and with hopefully, trusted friends. I am secure in what I am and love to be very feminine and dress and act accordingly. I am cheerful and serious but also VERY SELECTIVE. I DO respect all others but also know that not 'everyone' will share my desires and interests. I am a 'newbie' as I 'register to join' this site on July 29th, 2025 and am 'testing the waters' so to speak. I have tried many other 'chats' and 'websites' and was not finding friends in my (Winston Salem) area. It would be wonderful to find others and a male friend I can trust to meet and share time and experiences IN PERSON. I must continue to keep this a 'private trusted secret' for many reasons and hope all or most will understand.

I am still learning about myself The older I get the more convinced I'm Viola and so happy to be the girl ive always been Please dont be offended but im not into men so please do not pm me for cyber as Im not interested