just a nice guy who believes romance is a lost art.

5 yrs into transition, hoping it will this summer that I get my affirming surgery

2 Feb 13 Just looking for friends, fun, and the meaning of life. Maybe even some love. ........ long time since I wrote that it's 2024 now, I don't update very much, well found some friends, had a lot of fun since then, and the meaning of life, who knows, try to be happy I guess. I'm happy, I gave up the man life right many years ago and went to cosmetology school became a hairstylist, I live fulltime as me, I'm semi-retired now but still luv to do hair part time and do so at least 2 days a week, I've been coming here to chat with friends way back in 2006 and have talked to some amazing people some sadly are gone now and sorely missed but am always glad to meet new ppl and keep in touch with old friends. I'm not into women sexualy but luv so many as dear friends I really only date guys but not interested in any right now too busy just being me and my happy life for now.... Bigfoot is real

ask and ill tell ya

https://www.flickr.com/photos/27801366@N03/ 2201.26 2nd job started in 2 years. It's ok. I work from home, decent hours, and no more 2 hour commute. I don't know that it means I get more Sandy time yet. We'll see. 2108.28 I've been wanting to change my name for a while now. So here we go! 2101.30 Still alive. I just don't get much Gail time. 1904.28 Still substitute teaching (which sucks) while looking for a new job. Hopefully something will break for me soon. StarDate 1806.16 Got my ears pierced today. Wheee!!! StarDate 1707.27 Things have gotten better in the last year. Met a GG online (I highly recommend OKCupid!), and before our first date I told her about Gail. She's basically ok with the concept, but just doesn't care to participate. That's fine with me. My teen and I are moving in with the GF and her boys. So the odds of getting any real Gail time is damned slim. But things are getting better slowly. I've gotten a number of emails and messages with good wishes. I appreciate all your messages. Thank you. StarDate 1510.12 Well, my world is blowing up. It's been a month to the day that my wife left me and the kids. She wants a divorce. (appears to be non-Gail-related) Having to sell house, throw out belongings, etc. Sad, but thrilled at the same time to start a new adventure. Kids still at home for a couple more years, and they will be with me. Until the kids leave (or at least the divorce is finalized) I have to be a boy scout. So, I've moved my stash off-site so that I'm not tempted to indulge, which sucks, but I think smart to do. StarDate 1506.01 I have decided that I'm very excited about Caitlyn Jenner and her VF cover. This is a big day for all the T community. It's going to confuse a lot of straight people for a while. That's ok. It's good for them. (as long as they don't get violent. I'm looking at YOU, straight guys who got a mental boner looking at Caitlyn). Diet update: Down 19 lbs Still unemployed, still kind of enjoying it, but it's clear I'm going to need a way to support this family (and Gail) fairly soon. I need to get out of this closet. StarDate 1505.14 Third week on a diet. Dropped 15 lbs so far. Looking to drop a LOT more. More updates coming.

Trying to help Others, I am a CD, 5' 0", part time, have no desire to go full time, very comfortable in public and have been for many years. I only chat in PVT, so feel free to PM me, no need to ask before. I am married and was the one that wore the gown in a Lesbian Wedding years ago, and she and I have an open relationship, she can date other women and I can date men and women.