I am still learning about myself The older I get I know I'm Viola and so happy to be the girl i've always been Please don't be offended but i'm not into men so please do not pm me for cyber as I'm not interested. I love photography and it comes in handy for railways as i'm a big fan and I just love the use of a camera to capture things I love. Things like sunsets and the moods of the sky always lift me. I have so many interests that if your interested just ask. Life is an evolving book that never stops,,,,its our choice to do with it as we please,,,,we can make the world a better place. My one wish,,,to be totally accepted as Vi,,,,that would be so lovely

Coping with Gender Dysphoria.

First off, I love to PM chat, however, be honest and fair, if you are in a situation that you have to leave suddenly and leave me hanging waiting for a response from you, please do not engage chat with me. I like to see a full length picture of who I am chatting with, not leg shots, or selfies in the mirror, I am real and show that to the world, I expect the same. I am a petite and passable TV, 5'0", 130lbs. Been out in public tons of times since 1986 I have allot to share, and can help in passing, what I have to say, you may not like, but it is real and can assist in teaching you on what to do and what not to do to pass in public. Was married to a female on November 17th, 1990 (Lesbian Wedding), and I walked down the isle in a Wedding dress and she was at the alter I do not attend TG conventions, or go to TG/TV clubs, work part time as a female in a Bridal Salon, so if you want to know anything about Bridal or Prom fashions, I am the one to talk to. I do not chat in the main room, too many fights and quite frankly hard to even follow any single conversation. Feel free to PM message me any time for conversation, but for those that want to "cyber" or "phone", don't bother, men looking for seeking a trans to say they are not Bi or Gay, not me to chat with, go to the Adult room. My wardrobe is extensive, 4 or 5 closets and as my female husband says, "enough clothes in the house for 5 females". I will date men that are in their upper 40's, the ones that are looking for what their wives gave up on years ago, wearing, skirts, heels, looking presentable, and of course recovering the "lost art", that allows every women to smile while walking down the isle :) Enough rambling, hope to see you on-line!. Jennifer

I am a mature crossdresser looking for friends.