just a nice guy who believes romance is a lost art.

5 yrs into transition, hoping it will this summer that I get my affirming surgery

I am a mess lol but I’m sorting things out. It takes a lifetime to figure out nothing was ever wrong with you… that you saw who others expected too much from and it resembled failure. I might not know anything but I know I’m enough.

I am still learning about myself The older I get the more convinced I'm Viola and so happy to be the girl ive always been Please dont be offended but im not into men so please do not pm me for cyber as Im not interested

trans man

I am a lifelong transfeminine male who has not yet started a public transition. Although close to doing so, was hoping to meet others with whom I can write with and hopefully develop friendships with.

https://www.flickr.com/photos/27801366@N03/ 2201.26 2nd job started in 2 years. It's ok. I work from home, decent hours, and no more 2 hour commute. I don't know that it means I get more Sandy time yet. We'll see. 2108.28 I've been wanting to change my name for a while now. So here we go! 2101.30 Still alive. I just don't get much Gail time. 1904.28 Still substitute teaching (which sucks) while looking for a new job. Hopefully something will break for me soon. StarDate 1806.16 Got my ears pierced today. Wheee!!! StarDate 1707.27 Things have gotten better in the last year. Met a GG online (I highly recommend OKCupid!), and before our first date I told her about Gail. She's basically ok with the concept, but just doesn't care to participate. That's fine with me. My teen and I are moving in with the GF and her boys. So the odds of getting any real Gail time is damned slim. But things are getting better slowly. I've gotten a number of emails and messages with good wishes. I appreciate all your messages. Thank you. StarDate 1510.12 Well, my world is blowing up. It's been a month to the day that my wife left me and the kids. She wants a divorce. (appears to be non-Gail-related) Having to sell house, throw out belongings, etc. Sad, but thrilled at the same time to start a new adventure. Kids still at home for a couple more years, and they will be with me. Until the kids leave (or at least the divorce is finalized) I have to be a boy scout. So, I've moved my stash off-site so that I'm not tempted to indulge, which sucks, but I think smart to do. StarDate 1506.01 I have decided that I'm very excited about Caitlyn Jenner and her VF cover. This is a big day for all the T community. It's going to confuse a lot of straight people for a while. That's ok. It's good for them. (as long as they don't get violent. I'm looking at YOU, straight guys who got a mental boner looking at Caitlyn). Diet update: Down 19 lbs Still unemployed, still kind of enjoying it, but it's clear I'm going to need a way to support this family (and Gail) fairly soon. I need to get out of this closet. StarDate 1505.14 Third week on a diet. Dropped 15 lbs so far. Looking to drop a LOT more. More updates coming.

Accepting and discovering my female self while coping with gender dysphoria.