i just got out of a relationship, but looking for something new

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I am a life long M2F transgender person. I began dressing at age 8. I dressed on and off as a kid and teenager. My TG feelings became very intense at about age 43 and I began dressing fully. My first makeover was an amazing experience. Today, I have a full wardrobe and dress fully. I'm a real girdle girl. I have attended several TG conferences and learned a lot. I prefer to chat in private here, please say hello if you read my profile.

Keeping it casual

love who I m and love meeting new friends

Straight married and curious

Nice guy

I'm a man looking to date a transwoman for casual fun and enjoyment. I'm informed about world events and politics. I paint canvases and am interested in art. I like to tell jokes.

Hi, thanks for stopping by. Happy girl here, just checking out the website. Interested in making friends with like minded accepting people. As for who I am, I don’t even know where to start. Feel free to chat me up and I am happy to share more as we get acquainted. I understand there are many different reasons why others have joined this website. While I respect them all, to avoid any sense of confusion, I am not looking to hook up or create relationships that go beyond friendship at this time. I am happy with where I am in life and always open to meeting new people, making new friends, and enjoying good company. Am sure as I spend more time on the site, will say hello to those that peek my interest, hope you’ll do the same. Also, if your profile is or is almost blank and you don’t have a profile pic published, please move along. Why would anyone be interested? Thx Wishing everyone an amazing day! Michelle

Struggling with ID for ever, since 7 or so. Hate boy sports, never interested. Except to look at tight football guys pants. Took ballet so I could wear tights and leotards. Played house with girls, never any boys.

I have been a crossdresser most of my life. I am interested in meetung others with similar interests, just to help me understand, why we have this similar interest

Im a trans women

Long time closet CD. Love lingerie.

Mature, married, passable crossdresser. Looking for new friendships and perspectives on en femme life.

Have fun

Feel free to ask. I'll chat with anyone. Very open about a lot of stuff.

I should say up front that I am not attracted to men, which may not be super popular, but it just is how it is. I think now is the time to update my profile so that it might be more helpful to others with pathways that are similar to mine and are struggling to get answers about themselves. And I am going to use my own story as a transwoman as the reference point for my description because it is easier to do than to try to make it cover all scenarios, but you can translate it to your own situation, I am sure. The typical narrative that we hear for transwomen is one in which they have always known they were "in the wrong body", that they liked to play with the toys and dress in the clothes stereotypically associated with girls, and they always felt like they fit in with the girls, but not the boys. And puberty is generally a source of great distress. Of course, this is a totally fine and valid narrative, but it is not the only one that exists. I had none of that. When I was young, I never questioned that I was a boy. My buddies were boys, I did all the things other boys did, and I liked girls. When puberty came, it was later than for most of the kids in my class, but I really wanted it to get underway because girls did not seem interested in the shrimpy boys that did not even have pubic hair. I did have a number of clues pop up during my life that in retrospect were indications that I was trans, such as being fascinated by a sitcom story about a character who went to a high school reunion and ran into an old friend who had transitioned to a woman, and the news story about a girl in a James Bond movie who was trans...I had the vague feeling that I wanted to transition when I encountered those stories, but I quickly forgot about it and moved on in life. There were a bunch of others, but none of them fit what I believed was an indication of anything related to being a transgender person. When I first saw a transwoman on the internet (porn) I was highly attracted to her and was shocked that it was possible for the transition to yield results that were so good. Again, I had the feeling that I wanted to be like her, but it was not powerful. I believed that for any person to go through the tremendous challenges of transitioning to a woman, they would need to have a signal as clear as a billboard on Broadway telling them "You are a woman!!!". I had nothing of the sort. So, I went on to get married, have kids, and live happily for 20 years. Then the "trigger event" occurred. There were changes in the year leading up to it, but I did not understand them. For example, I began to have a persistent fantasy of being kidnapped and forced to transition to a woman and to serve as a prostitute. I also had the attraction to having breasts and used a toy called a "wubble full of snow" as a fake boob that I could stick in my shirt. I hid this from everybody, of course, but it was a powerful desire and I could not get enough of that feeling (though it was not related to sex or masturbation). Then, by chance, I used the FaceApp gender swap function to alter a picture of myself and when I did, it was like being struck by lightning. I could not stop using it all afternoon. The next day, I found that I was highly attracted to my own image, and that did lead to a sexual response, and then I tried to simulate the image in real life by using makeup. That also "worked"; however, after about 4 times, it faded away and I no longer had any significant sexual response to my pictures or any kind of "cross dressing". Unfortunately, the trigger event was a marker for the onset of gender dysphoria, which for me manifested in an unbelievably powerful body envy reaction whenever I saw a woman, even if she was on TV. It eventually led to an unhappiness that I looked as male as I did. This was a debilitating condition that was so disruptive that I could not enjoy going out in public, watching a movie, or just doing anything where I would see a woman (but not my wife, for some reason). I began to fall behind at work and felt like I was drowning. I realized that I was not going to be able to live 30 or 40 more years like that, and I asked for help from my therapist (whom I had started seeing shortly after the trigger event). I looked for other treatments, but the only option other than transition seemed to be cognitive behavior therapy supplemented by SSRIs. That appeared to offer a little progress in coping with the dysphoria over a couple of years, but I needed a fundamental change, not a little progress. I chatted with a bunch of people here and I don't remember coming across any who were just battling the dysphoria and could describe their quality of life as good (I am sure there are some out there, and if so, I would be interested to hear from you!). Those that did transition seemed to be quite happy (at least in what they revealed to me). My head told me transition was not a good idea for me because there was nothing feminine about me, and it would completely flip my life on its ass, a life in which I was happy and had previously had no significant problems. At the same time, there was a part of me that said "do not walk past this opportunity or you will regret it forever." So, after about 15 months of struggling and figuring shit out, I listened to that voice, which is against all of the things my engineering brain was telling me I have been on HRT for about 2 years with a very slow ramp up on my dosage during that time, and I feel great. The estradiol got rid of about 90% of the dysphoria and I felt like my "old" self. I have really struggled with getting comfortable with how I am going to present and what I am going to be like. As I mentioned, I am not very feminine, so I would never really "pass", but I eventually came to realize that I don't necessarily need to pass in order to be happy. I want to look my best, but I am just going to be more comfortable dressed in casual sports clothes than in a dress, happier playing hockey and doing kung fu than going clubbing, and that this is ok. That was a place in which I did not expect to land, but I am glad I did. If this helps anybody, I will be happy. Just know that everybody's story is different, and you do have to figure your own issues out, but you will get to be where you need to be if you listen to your gut and are honest with yourself, I think. Best wishes to you, and do not be afraid to contact me if you would like to chat.

i always ask my mom where can i meet the right man and she would answered dont worry about finding the right man concentrate on becoming the right lady...Do you know that men and women are angels created with only one wing? And they need to embrace each other to be able to fly... I Hope to find my angel whom I can fly with forever.

Admirer of all the women here. Hopefully I will find the courage to move forward in my quest to find inner happiness. I have been crossdressing since I dont know when. Purged so many times that I cant remember. But I always came back to my female side. Lost my marriage last year the following week my job....... so I figured .. NOW is the time. Im looking for people who can help with advice, encouragement and most importantly..... FRIENDSHIP. A persons true Beauty comes from within....... well there is nothing holding me back.........except having the courage to take that step..... As the guy in the move Selena..... when she went on the bungy jump.."If you look down you wont do it..... the hardest thing is letting go" well Thats exactly where I am at now. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO someone give me a good shove !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you care to send a friends request.... i would appreciate it...... a girl needs all the friends she can get and you can never have too many. Thank You for taking the time to read. Sincerely Geri G

Most consider me to be a warm, down to earth and friendly person...always smiling and always a gentleman. I love to travel, ski in the winter, bike and hike in the summer. I enjoy nights out or a quiet night in. I also love museums and I'm crazy about music....as you can tell from my pics. I'm hoping to find a nice girl for a lasting relationship, but I'm also interested in making new friends. Feel free to say hello!

Tall man looking for conversation and friends

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Happily Married Woman having transitioned in late 20s married in mid 30s If you are going to send me a mail, give me a reason why I should reply. Don't just say 'Hi' Btw, I don't always reply to PMs from people I don't know yet.. best to try chatting in the Lobby first My pet hate - which happened today for the first time in ages - a PM and then a message in the lobby that I should 'Check' my PMs! people who do that will get blocked

Curious trans girl