I am a 'mature' (64 yrs) and dedicated single male crossdresser. I am a tall 'gurl' at 5'11" without heels and weigh 180 lbs. I generally 'dress my age' but still try to be VERY FEMININE in what I wear and how I 'act' when I do dress. I am seeking friends of BOTH genders for friendship and a 'hopefully' a male for acceptance and a more 'one on one' friendship in the Winston Salem, NC area. I am 'private' and NOT 'out' but still would like to 'expand' my time as a woman in trusted encounters and with hopefully, trusted friends. I am secure in what I am and love to be very feminine and dress and act accordingly. I am cheerful and serious but also VERY SELECTIVE. I DO respect all others but also know that not 'everyone' will share my desires and interests. I am a 'newbie' as I 'register to join' this site on July 29th, 2025 and am 'testing the waters' so to speak. I have tried many other 'chats' and 'websites' and was not finding friends in my (Winston Salem) area. It would be wonderful to find others and a male friend I can trust to meet and share time and experiences IN PERSON. I must continue to keep this a 'private trusted secret' for many reasons and hope all or most will understand.

Accepting and discovering my female self while coping with gender dysphoria.

Part time cross dresser trying to figure things out.

Average guy.

Trans adult creator

https://www.flickr.com/photos/27801366@N03/ 2201.26 2nd job started in 2 years. It's ok. I work from home, decent hours, and no more 2 hour commute. I don't know that it means I get more Sandy time yet. We'll see. 2108.28 I've been wanting to change my name for a while now. So here we go! 2101.30 Still alive. I just don't get much Gail time. 1904.28 Still substitute teaching (which sucks) while looking for a new job. Hopefully something will break for me soon. StarDate 1806.16 Got my ears pierced today. Wheee!!! StarDate 1707.27 Things have gotten better in the last year. Met a GG online (I highly recommend OKCupid!), and before our first date I told her about Gail. She's basically ok with the concept, but just doesn't care to participate. That's fine with me. My teen and I are moving in with the GF and her boys. So the odds of getting any real Gail time is damned slim. But things are getting better slowly. I've gotten a number of emails and messages with good wishes. I appreciate all your messages. Thank you. StarDate 1510.12 Well, my world is blowing up. It's been a month to the day that my wife left me and the kids. She wants a divorce. (appears to be non-Gail-related) Having to sell house, throw out belongings, etc. Sad, but thrilled at the same time to start a new adventure. Kids still at home for a couple more years, and they will be with me. Until the kids leave (or at least the divorce is finalized) I have to be a boy scout. So, I've moved my stash off-site so that I'm not tempted to indulge, which sucks, but I think smart to do. StarDate 1506.01 I have decided that I'm very excited about Caitlyn Jenner and her VF cover. This is a big day for all the T community. It's going to confuse a lot of straight people for a while. That's ok. It's good for them. (as long as they don't get violent. I'm looking at YOU, straight guys who got a mental boner looking at Caitlyn). Diet update: Down 19 lbs Still unemployed, still kind of enjoying it, but it's clear I'm going to need a way to support this family (and Gail) fairly soon. I need to get out of this closet. StarDate 1505.14 Third week on a diet. Dropped 15 lbs so far. Looking to drop a LOT more. More updates coming.