I am a 'mature' (64 yrs) and dedicated single male crossdresser. I am a tall 'gurl' at 5'11" without heels and weigh 180 lbs. I generally 'dress my age' but still try to be VERY FEMININE in what I wear and how I 'act' when I do dress. I am seeking friends of BOTH genders for friendship and a 'hopefully' a male for acceptance and a more 'one on one' friendship in the Winston Salem, NC area. I am 'private' and NOT 'out' but still would like to 'expand' my time as a woman in trusted encounters and with hopefully, trusted friends. I am secure in what I am and love to be very feminine and dress and act accordingly. I am cheerful and serious but also VERY SELECTIVE. I DO respect all others but also know that not 'everyone' will share my desires and interests. I am a 'newbie' as I 'register to join' this site on July 29th, 2025 and am 'testing the waters' so to speak. I have tried many other 'chats' and 'websites' and was not finding friends in my (Winston Salem) area. It would be wonderful to find others and a male friend I can trust to meet and share time and experiences IN PERSON. I must continue to keep this a 'private trusted secret' for many reasons and hope all or most will understand.

https://www.flickr.com/photos/27801366@N03/ 2201.26 2nd job started in 2 years. It's ok. I work from home, decent hours, and no more 2 hour commute. I don't know that it means I get more Sandy time yet. We'll see. 2108.28 I've been wanting to change my name for a while now. So here we go! 2101.30 Still alive. I just don't get much Gail time. 1904.28 Still substitute teaching (which sucks) while looking for a new job. Hopefully something will break for me soon. StarDate 1806.16 Got my ears pierced today. Wheee!!! StarDate 1707.27 Things have gotten better in the last year. Met a GG online (I highly recommend OKCupid!), and before our first date I told her about Gail. She's basically ok with the concept, but just doesn't care to participate. That's fine with me. My teen and I are moving in with the GF and her boys. So the odds of getting any real Gail time is damned slim. But things are getting better slowly. I've gotten a number of emails and messages with good wishes. I appreciate all your messages. Thank you. StarDate 1510.12 Well, my world is blowing up. It's been a month to the day that my wife left me and the kids. She wants a divorce. (appears to be non-Gail-related) Having to sell house, throw out belongings, etc. Sad, but thrilled at the same time to start a new adventure. Kids still at home for a couple more years, and they will be with me. Until the kids leave (or at least the divorce is finalized) I have to be a boy scout. So, I've moved my stash off-site so that I'm not tempted to indulge, which sucks, but I think smart to do. StarDate 1506.01 I have decided that I'm very excited about Caitlyn Jenner and her VF cover. This is a big day for all the T community. It's going to confuse a lot of straight people for a while. That's ok. It's good for them. (as long as they don't get violent. I'm looking at YOU, straight guys who got a mental boner looking at Caitlyn). Diet update: Down 19 lbs Still unemployed, still kind of enjoying it, but it's clear I'm going to need a way to support this family (and Gail) fairly soon. I need to get out of this closet. StarDate 1505.14 Third week on a diet. Dropped 15 lbs so far. Looking to drop a LOT more. More updates coming.

I am a straight crossdresser but interested in romance with an understanding man and in making friends with other cds.

Trying to help Others, I am a CD, 5' 0", part time, have no desire to go full time, very comfortable in public and have been for many years. I only chat in PVT, so feel free to PM me, no need to ask before. I am married and was the one that wore the gown in a Lesbian Wedding years ago, and she and I have an open relationship, she can date other women and I can date men and women.