StarTribune.com – By Amy Dickinson
Dear Amy: I am a transgender twentysomething with a bit of an etiquette problem.
Biologically, I am a female, and I do not plan on surgically transitioning into a male.
It can be difficult to explain my identity to people who are not familiar with the transgender umbrella.
While I am comfortable wearing men’s clothing or dressing androgynously, and I’m able to pass as either male or female should I desire, I am at a loss for what to wear at weddings and other formal occasions.