Ask Jane, Column 1

Hi Jane,

The other day I put on my black polka dot string bikini panties and went to the supermarket to do a little shopping. When I was done, I was putting my groceries in the trunk of my car and obviously bending over a little to put them in. A lady was waiting for the person parked beside me to leave and then pulled in beside me. I got in my car and was getting ready to leave when I noticed her window go down. She then told me I should be careful bending over too far because she could see my polka dot panties.

Boy, was I shocked! I guess I was a little embarrassed and pulled away without saying anything. However, I’ve been thinking about that little incident; it really, really turned me on. In all likelihood I will do it again.

Do you think I should have said something to the woman? Do you think she liked what she saw and maybe she was trying to tell me something, that is, trying to pick me up? It was really sunny out so she must have got a good look huh? Would you have said something if it were you?

Bikiniboy

Darling,

What the woman was doing, Bikiniboy, is honor a code we women have: we let each other know when an “unmentionable” is showing. Women wear so many layers of silky, slippery undergarments and flowy outerwear that it happens to us all on occasion … and sometimes it even happens not by accident but accidentally-on-purpose. (We will never, ever admit to this, however.)

It’s up to each of us to decide how we want to handle such “mishaps.” You said nothing, just pulled your car away, went home, and likely tore off your trousers to reach inside your bikini panties for some relief (and I don’t mean from the hot sun). As you discovered, it can be quite arousing to reval a teensy bit of our sexual self and be noticed … the exhibitionist in us is saying, “see me as the sexual being I am.”

By mentioning your bikini show, was she hitting on you? I don’t think so, but she may have been quite amused by a view of your bikini’d behind (I would have been) … and she may have giggled with a girlfriend when relaying the incident (as I would definitely have done).

If it happened to me, would I have said something in response? Well, I have walked out of the ladies’ room with the back hem of my full skirt caught on the waistband of my panties or pantyhose … and when a woman rushed up to let me know my full backside was on view, I just laughed … and hoped that any male who might have caught a peek enjoyed the show.

Jane

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