Bianca Knows Best … And Helps a Cross-Dresser – posted by Bianca Phillips

Dear Bianca,

I’m a 50-something straight male who enjoys dressing in women’s clothing. I’m not transgender. I just have fun playing dress-up sometimes.

It’s never been an issue, as all my friends are open and accepting. I frequently go out in public in full drag. But I’ve recently started dating a new woman, and I’m afraid to tell her about my penchant for frilly shirts and high heels. She’s open-minded, but I don’t know if I’ll freak her out.