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Closets
Dear Darlings,
Closets: secret places where we can safely celebrate who we are.
Closets: prisons that keep us trapped, isolated, and lonely.
Are you in one? Or out? Or are you in and want to come out? Or are you out and wish you’d…
URNA Community:
Greetings. I have been remiss in writing my Ask Jane column for the site and for this I apologize. I talk about transition in the letter below; I’ve been through a transition of another sort during the past year: a heart-breaking d…
Deciding Not To Cross-Dress
Hi Jane,
I desperately need your help. For over 20 years I have been a closet TV. In all that time I have not needed to share this. However, I suffer tremendous guilt. I just feel it’s wrong. So last year I made t…
Awash in Dopamine
Dear Jane,
Do you believe that cross-dressing can be addictive? I can’t stop. I’ve quit dozens of times but when I do I’m always thinking about it and inevitably go back to doing it. What makes it so hard to quit?
Craving…
Craving T-Girls
Dear Jane,
It’s so great to see an advice area. I recently joined urnotalone, and would love to get your advice. I am a part time cross dresser, married. She found out, and after some long talks, decided to stay together. She …
Regrets
Dear Jane,
I’m a glaring example of why it may be better not to tell your wife. Two weeks ago I went to another city to be with my friends from URNA for their monthly gathering. Sunday afternoon when I got home I thought my excuse was goi…
I thank all of you who were so kind to respond to my query about crossdressers’ wives’ fears. I am still in the midst of research on this topic, so don’t hesitate to contact me if you have something to add. In the meantime, here’s a new column:
Her…
A Notice to All CDs: Would You Help Me, Please?
Greetings and happy summer! I write you from beautiful Barbados … a long way from this Colorado girl’s roots.
I would like to ask a favor of you.
Would you be willing to share your experie…
Can Hypnosis Help?
Hi Jane,
First, I want to say that I am one of your most dearest fans, and love how you support the crossdressing community.
I just read a letter to you from a crossdresser who inquired about self-hypnosis to embody their f…
He Wants to Suck Another CD’s Penis
Hi Jane,
I’ve been a huge fan of yours for a long time and was even one of the participants in your “Lingerie Fetish Research” a few years ago; I truly enjoyed the experience of discussing the subject with you….