On transgender disclosure…

indyweek.com – by Steven Petrow

When to tell your date that you’re transgender?

Q: I’ve told men up front that I’m male-to-female trans (I date straight guys), and I’ve also waited until longer into the relationship, and I still don’t know which is the better approach. I don’t want them to be disappointed (or to lose their attention), but I also want them to know I’m an honest person – someone you could have a relationship with. What’s the best strategy for this if I’m looking for a keeper, i.e., not just sex?