AgoraCosmopolitan.com – by Brianna Austin
There are many crossdressers that are sure that by hiding their dressing desires that they are “protecting” their wives and or girlfriends. But are they protecting the women they supposedly love, or themselves?
Many CDs are simply too embarrassed to acknowledge the truth about their crossdressing desires with the female they love. They hardly understand it themselves, so how are they supposed to explain it to someone else? But being trans is not something you do (unless you’re a fetishist, which may be driven by things other than gender identity); it is something you are, and as such, by locking it away in the closet you’re wife (or girlfriend) only knows you as a fragmented person, not the complete person you are.