The Never Ending Push For Me To Be Straight And How Much That Hurts

lezgetreal.com – by Bridgette P. LaVictoire

I have not written one of these in a while, but given that it is a fairly slow news day for the LGBT Community, I thought I would write something away from the normal run of news and opinion.

Let me be blunt. I am a virgin. Ok, now that everyone’s passed the gasping and horror over the idea that, at 35, I have never had sex, let me explain why. As a transsexual, I abhor the idea of having sex with a woman as I am physically right now, which is a functional “male”. While I am on hormones and anti-androgens and that functionality is coming to an end, the idea of having sex with a woman as I am now is horrendously sickening to me. It is as bad as the idea of having sex with a man at any point in time- either pre or post op.